I just read Adele's interview in Time Magazine and it made me love the woman for more than her incredible voice. I absolutely adore what she had to say about work life balance and her views on motherhood and staying focused.
Here are some of my favorite lines in the interview. I modified the questions a bit to make her answers clearer:
Why do so many people respond to Adele songs?
Adele: “The fact that I’m not shy or embarrassed to be falling apart. Everyone falls apart, I think. A lot of people try to be brave and not shed a tear. Sometimes when you know someone else feels as s— as you do, or approaches things in a certain way just like you do, it makes you feel better about yourself. Even though my music is melancholy, there’s also joy in that. I hope I do bring joy to people’s lives, and not just sadness, but I think there’s there’s a comfort in it. But I honestly don’t know. If I knew, I would bottle it, and sell it to everyone else.”
What's motherhood like (her son Angelo is 3) while balancing a demanding promotional schedule?
Adele: “The other day I was saying, ‘Oh God, I’m finding this really hard again with a kid. I have no time for myself because in between doing this, all my spare time is with him. But then I realized, he’s been keeping me totally cool and calm about the whole thing.”
Has motherhood changed your outlook?
Adele: “He makes me so proud of myself, and he makes me like myself so much. And I’ve always liked myself. I’ve never not liked myself. I don’t have hangups like that. But I’m so proud of myself that I made him in my belly. Cooked him in my belly and then he came out of me! This human who’s suddenly walking around and doing his own thing. I can’t wait to know who his best friends are going to be, who his girlfriend or his boyfriend is going to be or what movies he likes… Whatever my kid wants to do or be I will always support him no matter what.”
What's life like outside of work?
Adele: "It’s as normal a life as I can have. I think people would be pretty surprised. When I’m not doing a photoshoot, it’s just me, my boyfriend and the baby. I think it’s really important that you don’t get f—ed up by everything,” she says. “It’s important so you stay in touch with yourself. If you lose touch with yourself, no one’s going to want to talk to you or listen to anything you’re f—ing doing. They’ll just point at you and laugh. At you, not with you.”
What do you want for your son?
Adele: “I’m very self-conscious that I have a kid, and I don’t want him being one of those dickheads, who grows up being, like, ‘Driver, driver!'” She snaps her fingers. “I have no clean clothes! Well, have you washed them? I really don’t want him growing up like that. I’m very conscious of it.”
Do you want fame for your son?
Adele: If my kid decides that when he’s old enough to make his own decision that he wants to be known for being my kid, I’ll be annoyed, but I won’t stop him. I’ll be like, ‘It’s your choice now.’
Why did you cut out social media use to write your album?
Adele: "How am I supposed to write a real record if I’m waiting for half a million likes on a f—ing photo? That ain’t real.”
What about acting in the future?
Adele: "I have no interest in acting for the foreseeable future, at all, especially while I’m doing my music, because I can’t give my all into two things…"
To me, Adele's answers speak volumes about how she stays focused and down to earth and the value she places on being a good mom. Do you feel like Adele does that being a parent helps you keep life and work in perspective?