My husband is traveling for business a few days.
A couple of years ago, I would have dreaded that he would be away from home. It would have meant I would have had to put the kids to bed, wake them up, get them ready, pack lunches and do all the cooking and cleaning — by myself.
But now, things are different. I have only one child left at home, a teenager who is pretty self sufficient. Now, my husband’s business travel means I don’t have to make dinner. Last night, my son and I had leftovers. And, because my husband is away, we didn’t even bother doing the dishes. They’re still sitting in the sink. My son isn’t about to complain.
What’s more, I stayed up last night until way past midnight enjoying all the television shows I love to watch and he doesn’t. I watched almost the entire season of HBO Girls. Again.
Of course, I miss my husband and look forward to his return, but sometimes, alone time is just what a busy working parent needs. A recent Hilton Garden Inn survey found that 67 percent of women whom they surveyed confessed to wanting their significant others to go away on business trips so they could have time to themselves.
Sometimes, my night to myself may include plowing through the stack of unread magazines I have on my nightstand or devouring a good book. I have had women who travel for work confess to me that they sometimes look forward to the night in the hotel room alone for the same reasons as I do — to get some alone time. I find complete, uninterrupted immersion in entertainment of my choice extremely relaxing.
So how do you spend time to yourself when either you or your significant other travels? Do you have a go-to routine that you look forward to?
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